Over the years of my married life, I’ve been honored to speak with many women. Having been in ministry with my husband on staff at three different churches in a 13-year time span has given me that opportunity. One of the things I’ve heard so much from numerous women is how they settled for their husbands. Many were in love with a high school sweetheart and jumped right in. Some thought they could change their man and win him to Jesus. Still others didn’t want to be single as they approached their 30th birthday. So, they got married. And now many of those women have regrets. Regrets that they didn’t wait for God’s best but instead, made a decision that caused some serious grief in their lives. I have to tell you that I don’t know what it’s like to wait. I went from my momma’s house to my husband’s house. Getting married at the ripe old age of 22 doesn’t give me the expertise on waiting for a husband. So, while I can’t speak from my own experience, I can speak from others. And they want you to know that if you are engaged to be married and have any doubts whatsoever, you should get out. God gave us the gift of marriage. It is amazing and wonderful but also extremely trying. Make sure you allow God to bring you the mate best suited for being your partner for the rest of your days. It’s too serious a commitment not to.