Some marriages won’t make it. Now, don’t go thinkin’ I don’t have faith. I’ve got faith. Plenty of it. My making that statement has nothing to do with God and His ability. It has everything to do with the fact that we humans have been given a free will by Him. Some people can’t seem to forgive when they’ve been forgiven so much. Some people can’t seem to walk in godly sorrow and do what it takes to win their spouse back after betrayal. Some people can’t seem to admit they have a problem and because of that, want to ignore the pain and push it away only to find that one day when they round the corner, it will still be there waiting for them. My husband and I try to help as many couples as possible who have walked through infidelity. We don’t typically spend time with couples who just need some mentoring or just want to learn how to communicate better. No, the reality is that there are far too many couples that need our help to walk through infidelity. And since we have a file on that, we try to help. I say try because not all couples are willing to do whatever it takes to make their marriage work. One might be willing while the other might just be giving lip service. There have been times when we’ve spent a couple of hours with a couple and then decided not to spend any more time with them. It sounds harsh, but the truth is that we have only so many hours in our day to share with broken couples. And we want to make sure we are pouring into those couples who are 100% committed and who can then in turn, use their pain in the life of another. Because we are all about redemption.