Chris and I were visiting with our neighbors the other day, which has become quite an enjoyable past time for us. While we were talking, our neighbor mentioned that he got offered a new job where he would report directly to a woman. His wife didn’t seem to mind, but both Chris and I immediately asked him, “Is she good lookin’? Will you have to travel much?” Maybe it’s because of what we’ve endured in our marriage in regards to pornography and infidelity, but we are always trying to be pro-active in our thoughts and actions. Some might even say we are on the defensive. Perhaps. Our neighbors don’t think like we do. They’ve never had to. And I’m awfully glad that is the case for them. But we do have to think like that. Sometimes I wonder if the honest and disclosing nature that Chris and I both have is too much for some people to handle. I don’t want people to live in fear and wonder, “Is she gonna leave me? Is he gonna find a younger woman?” But, on the other side, when we don’t prepare for the battle that is sure to rage, we could get blasted by a bomb that we never knew was in the air. Because let me tell you one thing: Every single person we have spoken to who has forsaken their marriage vows to be with another NEVER SAW IT COMIN’. Thoughts?