But he took my breath away, nonetheless. He decided to come to my church that morning to see me. Thankfully, I was looking awfully adorable in my white flowery dress, white pantyhose, white flats and bit white hoop earrings. Exactly. I couldn’t even pay attention to the message because he was within inches of me. I was certain he could see my heart thumping up and down that was literally beating out of my chest. Is he the one? He invited me to lunch that day with several other people. I drove a few of us to our destination that day because clearly my 1990 Nissan Sentra was better than his 1977 turquoise Ford Mustang. It wasn’t love at first sight, but it was something at first sight. I knew it. He knew it. The people eating at the same table as us knew it. And the rest, as they say, is history. Do you remember your first date with your spouse?