The fifth step in Five Easy Steps to Driving a Wedge Between You and Your Spouse is: 5. Never share your heart. Don’t let your spouse in to the deepest places of your heart. Don’t let him/her know when you are hurting. Bottle it up and keep it all inside. Never pray together or be vulnerable about your fears. Don’t cry or show them the depth of your sadness when you are hurting. Only discuss superficial, surface issues instead of things that really matter. On the flip side, don’t ask your spouse to share his/her heart. Don’t be trustworthy with their fragile state of being. Go about your day like they don’t really matter because when you do that, it will just make their fears intensify. They will eventually begin to believe that you don’t care. And before you know it, you’ll be living like roommates.