Marriage Mentoring

Do You Drip?

When my husband, Chris, used to call me to tell me he’d be home later than expected, I would make sure I let him know of my disappointment. I would muster up everything in me in order to project the biggest and loudest sigh over the telephone followed by a whatever. Good one, Cindy. That’ll make him rush home. My first response was never about the strain he must have felt not only having to work…

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Marriage

Who Wants An Awesome Marriage?

Who doesn’t, right? But awesome doesn’t mean without any difficulties as some might think. I believe an awesome marriage happens when the husband and wife work through any difficulties successfully, choose to be each other’s biggest supporters instead of critics, and absolutely honor and cherish one another above anyone or anything on this earth. And those are just a few of the things it takes to make a marriage awesome. It is hard work. But…

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Marriage

It Happened Again

Not to me, but to Suzanne*. I don’t know her but I got an email recently that said this: please pray for me. my husband just confessed his affair to me. we’re in ministry. i’m dying over this. I’m heavier than normal over this. To be real honest, this was the 6th or 7th email I had gotten over a 7-day period. I get pretty used to these types of emails and have even gotten…

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Marriage

It Was Truly My Pleasure

Over the years that Chris and I have shared our story, we’ve had our share of critics.  They don’t always come out and say things to our faces but they do behind our backs.  Sometimes people think we are just trying to get attention for ourselves by sharing what we’ve gone through. Yeah, that’s it.  I totally love being known as the adultery couple. Just sayin’. Kevin and Nikki are different.  Two years ago they…

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