Marriage

The Wikipedia Effect

There have been several questions this week asking about what we thought of watching porn with your spouse.  In addition, we had a brief exchange yesterday about how pornography might be rooted in insecurity and our desire for some sort of affirmation as well as pure selfishness. Today’s question is this…What effect does pornography, whether shared by the spouses or hidden have on the intimacy in a marriage relationship? Before I answer let me again…

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Marriage

The Root Of The Issue

We’ve talked about statistics, scope and who is affected by the pornography epidemic.  Today, we’re going to excavate way below the surface issues and if you have the stomach for it, expose what might be at the root. Insecurity. I am not a psychologist, therapist, or licensed counselor.  I am, however, one who is walking the fragile road to freedom from a pornography addiction. On my journey, I have had the pleasure and at times,…

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Marriage

We need your help

UPDATE (1/11/09):  We have gotten a tremendous response from all of you.  THANK YOU!  We’ve landed on a name.  More details later 🙂 In upcoming posts, we will describe in greater detail what God has been doing to take our story and ministry to jacked up couples to a whole new level.  For now let me say this…we are starting a non-profit organization to facilitate the opportunities God is providing us to minister to couples. …

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